1) normally, if Windows detects the controller, the game should see it too. However, it might have some issue with XInput drivers.
Could you change this line (or add it if it's not there), in "C:\Program Files (x86)\Tennis Elbow 2013\Tennis.ini" (or the .ini of your profile if you have created one) under [Game], from :
XInput = 0
XInput = 1
Then save & launch the game.
It will use XInput instead of DirectInput for XInput Controllers (like the XBox 360 & one controllers) so it may solve your issue.
2) In Training Club & in World Tour, the match is automatically saved when you exit the game.
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